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Monday 12/02/2002 7:48:49pm
Name: Jim
E-Mail: jimandersonemail@yahoo.com
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location: Seattle
Comments: When I read the comments, I can't imagine the greif you must have suffered when you learned of your son's death. My heart truly goes out to you and your family, and from first hand experience with death at an early age - I was 5 when my dad died - I was truly moved by your obvious love and compassion for him. We never really know why loved ones are taken from us in such an untimely manner, but reflect on the times that you did have with him, knowing that all your efforts resulted in a fine outstanding young man.

 
Monday 12/02/2002 3:39:58pm
Name: Kelly
E-Mail: for_grieving_moms@yahoo.com
Homepage Title: For Grieving Moms
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/for_grieivng_moms/index.html
Comments: For Ryans Mom,
I am so sorry to read about your lovely son Ryan. In every word you write, I can feel how very much you loved him. I lost my son Josh this year. He was only 21 as well, and died in January too. I like to think that perhaps all of these beautiful kids who died too young, have all met and are friends in heaven. These will be my first holidays without Josh. I'm not sure that I am going to make it. God bless you..you have a beautiful son and lovely grandchildren.

Love and prayers,
Kelly
Sunday 11/17/2002 5:05:34pm
Name: Jenny
Homepage Title: Smiles From The Soul
Homepage URL: http://www.smilesfromthesoul.com
Location: UK
Comments: I am sorry for your pain, but this site is an inspirtaion. I have a memorial section on my site, if you would like me to add your boys, let me know :0)

Hugs.
Jenny.
xxxx
Friday 11/01/2002 11:00:18am
Name: Rex Collins
E-Mail: rcollins38732@yahoo.com
Location: Cleveland, Ms
Comments: Hi I am so sorry for your lost. I have 4 beautiful girls and thankfully God has allowed me to keep them with me. I asked God once why he took kids home to be with Him. I felt that they were being robbed of life. His answer was full of love and wisdom. He said that their life didn't end but was just beginning. Also, He said that through their death others will cherish life more. I know that will not ease your pain or fill the void you surely feel, but know that they are still serving God, and that you will one day embrace them again. May God cause His love to rain upon each of you. Rex
Friday 11/01/2002 7:21:59am
Name: Big AL
E-Mail: Strehlowa@aol.com
Homepage URL: http://N/A
Location: VA Bch
Comments: May GOD keep you all and Bless you all!
Don't give up. GOD told me even the sniper(s) need forgiving.
I had an overwhelming feeling of spiritual conviction while writing (angry things) about them.
"Basically stated= For thou shalt forgive Evenso shall thou be forgave"
Wednesday 10/30/2002 0:10:36am
Name: Tricia Harris
E-Mail: plharris5@aol.com
Location: Lexington, KY
Comments: My son, Ryan Harris was murdered 1/5/02 by 3 teenagers who did not know him and robbed him of $6.00..he had just turned 18 years old on 12/23/01. I read your web sight and felt very moved by your expressions and discriptions of you feelings of loss...I am so sorry for you...I am so sorry for me...God Bless all of us to be able to live with these tragedies....it hurts so much when you realize that these are just hypothetical situations for the rest of the world but they are reality for a select few (thankfully)...it's most difficult but I welcome any advice you might give me....thanks so much ....tricia harris
Monday 10/28/2002 4:59:06pm
Name: Melissa
E-Mail: michelle1414_1999@yahoo.com
Location: Evansville Indiana
Comments: Today i was looking for stuff that happened in January and i ened up in here. I took the time during class to read your story and the guest book.This is a great site and i feel your pain and will be praying with you and for you. I know how it feels to loose someone you love since I lost my dad at 3 years of age.It hurts not to know him but I still remember him and love him.Thanks you for making this site and reminding me how precious life is.GOD BLESS YOU!! GOD BLESS YOUR SISTER!!! , love Melissa
Friday 10/11/2002 12:04:39am
Name: Carolyn Kasten
E-Mail: ckasten@archairmedical.net
Location: Brighton
Comments: I worked with Scott's mom, Sandy. I miss seeing her smile. I had the pleasure of meeting Scott....he is missed. God Bless the Rhodes' family and the Aud family.
Wednesday 10/09/2002 7:05:59pm
Name: Amanda Studnicki
E-Mail: astudni@siue.edu
Location: Wood River, IL
Comments: You did a really nice job on the websites. I remember when I was younger and how I played in the band with Scott and saw him at the pool lifeguarding all the time. He will always remain in my prayers.
Sunday 09/29/2002 5:30:04am
Name: Andrew Mays
E-Mail: andrewmays@hotmail.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: California, USA
Comments: I am so sorry to hear a story of such tradgety. I, too, lost someone. I lost a good friend of mine named Ryan Dana. He was only 9 years old when he died of leukemia. I was his school buddy. I was so upset when he passed away. I look forward to seeing him when it is my turn to move upstairs. I love you ryan, I'll see you when my time comes. I'm 17 now and I remember his funeral like it was yesterday. I miss him so much.



 

Friday 09/27/2002 11:28:53am
Name: Cilla
E-Mail: Cilla@thepalfreymans.freeserve.co.uk
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://www.thepalfreymans.freeserve.co.uk
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location: England, U.K.
Comments: What a beautiful site. I feel such sorrow for you all. I do hope your site will prove a blessing both to your family and to others. And I pray that you will feel the Presence of the Lord Jesus, the Source of all comfort, very close to you all. With love, Cilla.



 

Monday 09/23/2002 5:23:49am
Name: Drew
E-Mail: email@changinglinks.com
Homepage Title: www.ChangingLINKS.com
Homepage URL: http://www.ChangingLINKS.com
Referred By: Search Engine
Location:
Comments:
I'm just checkin' out your site!
do you know of any really weird LINKs? I am surfing randomly
looking for weird stuff! It's my cure for boredom. I want to see something new.
Please visit http://www.ChangingLINKS.com add a site. [click here]__



 

Tuesday 09/03/2002 8:42:51am
Name: Barb Sutorius
E-Mail: barbara.sutorius@usbank.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Search Engine
Location:
Comments: I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you today.

Barb



 

Friday 08/09/2002 11:38:49am
Name: mary
E-Mail: pawasenius@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location: jacksonville Florida
Comments: I'm so very sorry fo your loss, he seemed like a great son, and father. I know he is in heaven looking out for all his loved ones.
Tuesday 08/06/2002 9:32:34am
Name: Rodney
E-Mail: rodney.short@robins.af.mil
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location: Butler Ga
Comments: I hope I never Know what ya'll have been through, My Prayer are with you. I wish we could always be there to protect them, but we can't. So Please God Protect thoses that we love. Rodney



 

Friday 07/26/2002 6:25:46pm
Name: Dawn Tripp
E-Mail: dmtbjt@msn.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Web Ring
Location:
Comments: My thoughts and prayers are with you all,what a beautiful memorial.



 

Thursday 07/11/2002 7:45:48am
Name: Kylie
E-Mail: huntclan@austarnet.com.au
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: Queensland Australia
Comments: Scott and Ryan are wonderful people. We will all meet our Angels in Heaven. Two beautiful souls who returned home too early



 

Wednesday 06/19/2002 7:21:00am
Name: Zoe
E-Mail: Rude_Gal_22@hotmail.com
Homepage Title: --
Homepage URL: http://--
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location: england nottingham
Comments: hi i didnt know ryan and scotty but i logged on to look and its made me cry.
it is so sad
god bless lads
from a girl called zoexx



 

Monday 05/27/2002 0:39:24am
Name: Sherry Greening
E-Mail: pietyhill@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: eugene or
Comments: Hi Nancy,

It's a wonderfull site. I really miss the boys. I still can't really believe they are gone. The kids are enjoying the links on the kids page. Ryan and Scotty are in our prayers.

Love

Cousin
Sherry

 

Monday 05/20/2002 9:39:57am
Name: Paddy Pelczar
E-Mail: regoangels@webtv.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location: Wareham, Mass.
Comments:
I was looking up speech delay in toddlers to mysurprise I came to your most inspiring page. I am the grandma of Baby Alex Rego who died on April 30, 1995 at the age of 26 mos old from a 6 mos. battle with acute mylegoneous leukemia and also his brother Andrew Rego who was tragically killed on a school sponsored ski trip to Ragged Mtn.in New Hampshire on March 2,2000. My daughter and husband have lost two children and I thank God each day for giving them strength each day to be able to function, smile and take care of their 3 yr.old.As a grandparent who was so close to my grandsons it is very sad for me.Grandparents grief is doubled because our children no matter what age are our babies forever and when their hearts are in so much pain we hurt so much for them and we have lost also. It will never be the same as loosing our child because there is nothing worst in the world for a parent to loose a child, let alone two children. They are in a better place and not until our journey on this earth is complete and we meet again in Heaven will we know the answer WHY
I want to thank you for the inforn=mation re: siblings. When Andrew died in 2002, his baby brother Nick, was 20 mos. old. The pediatrcian told his parents that he wouldn"t need counseling because he was too young and he would just forget about his brother. That statement proved so untrue. Nick started having aggressiveness. My daughter attributed this behavior to the terrible two"s Last Sept. he went to poroject grow and the teachers just loved him. He was always smiling had a great personality etc.
after 3 weeks he started to hit some of the children especially if they were singing or playing with a toy he wanted. Then he didn't want to go to school. The teachers said tat he would get real angry all of a sudden and hit another toddler. They were observing him and told my daughter to take him to a therapist. They, the teachers, know my daughter very well and they thought it might have something to do with his issues re the loss of a sibling My daughters mind started running with all kinds of obsessive thoughts, does he have add, is it a form of autism, is he going to be a violent person when he grows up.....never could she understand that he was affected by grief....
i read many articles and I would tell her things he would say to me about his brother, she just didn't get it. I really believe that she thought okay we had a beautiful baby come down with the worst kind of leukemia and he died such a painful death. Then our 12 yr. old gets killed instantly on the ski slope, now this one must have emotional problems.
Well, finally they took Nick out of school he"s in therapy and he does not have emotional problems....he is going through the pains of grief and being so young his pain came out in anger, not wanting to share and fear.But thank God he is 90% better today and mommy and daddy are expecting their 4th child anyday. This was not a planned pregnancy his is Jesus giving back. Nick will have a baby brother or sister again.
Another miracle, thank you Jesus !
For all the parents whose children have gone to Heaven I pray for you all that you will have strength, comfort and peace in you hearts.



 

Thursday 05/02/2002 11:35:10pm
Name: Rhonda Aldrich
E-Mail: rhondajean_1959@hotmail.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location: Sulphur Rock, Arkansas
Comments: What a great site for your son and nephew. So sorry for your tradegies. Another bereaved mom. Rhonda



 

Saturday 04/27/2002 12:29:25am
Name: Hayley catt
E-Mail: hcatt@msn.com
Homepage Title:
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Referred By: Search Engine
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Saturday 03/23/2002 10:27:40am
Name: Susie D.
E-Mail: salad@peoplepc.com
Homepage Title: In Memory Of Jason
Homepage URL: http://jasoncdunn.tripod.com
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: Wyoming
Comments: What a beautiful tribute you have made for your son and nephew....you have shared this path of grief with so many others. It's much easier to walk when someone holds your hand....great job!!!!



 

Tuesday 03/19/2002 9:58:15pm
Name: Deb
E-Mail: harndon@stny.rr.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: new york
Comments: I feel your pain! My heart goes out to you and all your family!

 

 

Tuesday 03/19/2002 6:08:11pm
Name: June (Angel Zane's Mommy)
E-Mail: jaymacdonald@mountiancable.net
Homepage Title: In Loving Memory Of Zane
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/angel_zane
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location: Canada
Comments: A beautiful memorial to your son and nephew. I am very sorry for your loss. I lost my son,Zane. I notice that is your grandson's name. My thoughts are with you. Hugs June



 

Friday 03/15/2002 6:03:10pm
Name: Doris (Angel Andrew's Mommy)
E-Mail: cdma@insightbb.com
Homepage Title: Angel Andrew
Homepage URL: http://home.insightbb.com/~cdma
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: USA
Comments: I enjoyed visiting your website. It was beautiful. Im sorry for your loss.



 

Friday 03/15/2002 1:46:08pm
Name: Donna Kemp
E-Mail: kempsw@bellsouth.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location: Navarre,Fl
Comments: What a beautiful tribute.



 

Monday 03/11/2002 5:00:29am
Name: Tanya Fye
E-Mail: tannibells@indianaconnect.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Friend
Location:
Comments: What you have done is amazing. What a beautiful way to remember your sons.



 

Saturday 03/02/2002 2:58:43am
Name: CINDY GRADIN
E-Mail: CINDEE1126@AOL.COM
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Search Engine
Location:
Comments: YOU DID A BEAUTIFUL JOB ON THE MEMORIAL...GOD BLESS YOU ALL

 

Friday 02/15/2002 3:52:55am
Name: Audrey Jennings
E-Mail: lilaud@bellsouth.net
Homepage Title: little audrey says...
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/lilaud56
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location: Kenner Louisiana
Comments: I was looking for sites on twins, and came across Ryan and Scottie's. Im so sorry for your loss, my heart was truly aching as i visited all the pages. I am the mother of 3 children and grandma of twin baby girls. I do not know the loss of a child, but i do know that it must be the most unbearable thing a parent could possible live thru. My prayers are with you and all your families. Be sure to know that they are in heaven with God and looking down on you, and they are with you each and every moment of the days to come. God Bless you all.



 

Sunday 02/10/2002 2:25:21pm
Name: Mom, Dad, Zane & Mazey
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Search Engine
Location:
Comments: Ryan, We are thinking of you today on your birthday. We miss you so much. The kids still remember so much about you. We will never let them forget you. The mass at church this morning was said for you. The kids carried the gifts up to the front with Shelly and Jenny. It doesn't seem right that those 2 precious kids should be without their Daddy. We love you...forever and ever...You will live in our hearts always. Mommy, Daddy, Zane & Mazey.



 

Friday 01/11/2002 6:45:10pm
Name: Mama / Aunt Nancy
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Search Engine
Location:
Comments: Ryan and Scotty, Missing you both so much today on the 4th anniversary of your death. I keep hoping this is all just a nightmare and I'll wake up and you will be here. We will never, ever forget you. Love you both so much. XOXO



 

Sunday 12/30/2001 10:22:32am
Name: Raúl Martinez
E-Mail: unclbear@coqui.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location: Ponce, Puerto Rico
Comments: Words fall short, no matter how beautiful or heartfelt they are. The pain within is just too large to be eased with words, welcomed as they are.My heart goes out for you and all affected by this terrible loss. So young... so tragic... so sorry...Life does go on and while I'm sure you'll never forget them, don't forget to live yourself. Celebrate their birthdays, not their deaths.Best wishes,Raúl



 

Saturday 12/29/2001 1:03:19pm
Name: Wesley's Mom
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://rememberwes.homestead.com/home.html
Referred By: Search Engine
Location:
Comments: I am very sorry for the losses your family experienced. The sudden, accidental death of a child is the most difficult loss to recover from. We too lost a son, 14yrs old to a drowning accident. Please visit our site and sign our guestbook.
god bless and help you.
Friday 12/21/2001 11:10:40pm
Name: Haleigh catt
E-Mail: hcatt@msn.com
Homepage Title: ryan and scotty
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Search Engine
Location:
Comments: every time im in this website i cry. i cant imagine how painful this was to you and family. my thoughts are with you
sincerly,
Haleigh Catt



 

Monday 12/10/2001 5:40:17pm
Name: kristen mcclain
E-Mail: mrs.krisco32425@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: E-Mail
Location: jacksonville,florida
Comments: i just wanted to let you know .i know what you going threw ,i had a boyfriend to get killed in a car accident a school bus hit him he was in the car with his friend his friend lived .i was 19 years old at the time he was to 19.its been 6 years now i think about him alot even though i,m married i still can,t believe it he was the only child his mom had .



 

Thursday 11/29/2001 9:02:03pm
Name: Glenn Fugate
E-Mail: KnightovVirtue@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location:
Comments: Greetings;

I Happened across this site looking for a friend of mine who passed on a long time ago. We were small and I was just hoping that maybe just maybe I would find something but alas, nothing. My heart goes out to you and yours may God reunite all of you when the time comes.



 

Tuesday 11/20/2001 2:28:02pm
Name: David Baker
E-Mail:
Homepage Title: Dean's Dedication Page
Homepage URL: http://home.talkcity.com/HealingWay/dakotabarrett/index8.html
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: Perth, Australia
Comments: This is a great page. I lost my brother, Dean, on December 18, 1998 aged 18. You can see the page my mother made for Dean's memory at the link above.
May peace be with you.
Warm wishes from Australia.



 

Tuesday 11/20/2001 3:48:23am
Name: ipek
E-Mail: mommylovessusan@aol.com
Homepage Title: My sweet Suzi Q
Homepage URL: http://members.aol.com/fgpnews/condolence/cond.html
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: Hollywood,Florida
Comments: I was looking for sites to help my grief and ended up here,I'm truly sorry For Your loss of 2 beautiful young men..Ryan and Scotty Rest in Peace ..
I lost my 19 year old beautiful Angel daugther to suicide on may 21-2001 and I have been devastated ,My life has ended With Susan that day ..So i know How You feel about your double tragedies..May God Gives You ladies wisdom and strength to carry on..
Love and hugs to you all!
Friday 11/16/2001 11:27:59pm
Name: ROSE KRAMER
E-Mail: BOSSLADYIAM@AOL.COM
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location: PENNSYLVANIA
Comments: I LOST A SON LAST YEAR AND AM ALWAYS SEARCHING THRU THE WEB FOR DIFFERENT WAYS TO EASE THE GRIEF



 

Sunday 10/28/2001 6:50:58pm
Name: Pat Unzicker
E-Mail: patsangel1985@cs.com
Homepage Title: Hope to do one some day
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Web Ring
Location: Palm Bay, Fla.
Comments: Such a special memorial to 2 angels that have gone on before you. Not fair!! But then life is not fair. I first would like to thank you for having a place to add my angel (David) I feel your pain; A pain that will never go away. I belong to a small group of grieving Mom's. (Circles of Memories) Don't know how I would get thru day to day without them & GOD. Some have added their Angels to your site. "There IS NO GREATER PAIN"
God wrote David's name in the Book of Life, As HE closed the book; THE ANGEL'S said "Too special for this life." As I WILL SEE MY DAVID AGAIN, So will you be reunited with your Angel's!! Again, Thanks for such a beautiful page. Wish you didn't have to make it. My prayers & thoughts are with you. May GOD give you peace!! pat



 

Saturday 10/27/2001 6:53:07pm
Name: Natasha
E-Mail: NJMXterra@YAHOO.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location:
Comments: I accidentally came upon this website and I just started to read everything. It is a very sad story and I am sorry for your lose.



 

Sunday 10/21/2001 4:12:14pm
Name: Sami
E-Mail: saminicole@hotmail.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Friend
Location:
Comments: I still can't read these things without crying. Nancy, this website really is beautiful. They are both still loved very much. Take care.



 

Friday 10/19/2001 2:42:11pm
Name: Millie Nasello
E-Mail: millie5280@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Friend
Location:
Comments: I am Sami Nasello's mother. Scott and Sami were very good friends and we have lots of conversations about how they helped and leaned on each other when one of them was down. I know Sami misses Scott very much. She always referred to him as her best "bud". I remember him as being respectful and on the quiet side. God bless.

 

 

Friday 10/05/2001 2:43:20am
Name:
E-Mail: bubblesmc20@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Search Engine
Location:
Comments: im so sorry for your loss. May god be with you and your family.



 

Tuesday 09/25/2001 12:46:53am
Name: ALMA PATRICK
E-Mail: TIGGERTWO62@HOTMAIL.COM
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location:
Comments: I'M SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS I KNOW IT IS TRULY HEART BREAKING I LOST MY FATHER FOUR YEARS AGO AND MISS HIM SO MUCH ALMA



 

Wednesday 09/19/2001 4:11:12am
Name: Ken Newbury
E-Mail: kennewbury@hotmail.com
Homepage Title: art5.co.uk
Homepage URL: http://www.art5.co.uk
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: Hornchurch, England.
Comments: very beautifully done.



 

Wednesday 09/19/2001 4:09:01am
Name: Ken Newbury
E-Mail: kennewbury@hotmail.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: Hornchurch, England.
Comments: very beautifully done.

 
Wednesday 09/05/2001 10:38:14am
Name: Yousif
E-Mail: alimo_josif2001@yahoo.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: Libya
Comments: Hi dear
I just found your page by coincidence when I was surfing through the net It is really great website, it has great impact to me I could not resist my tears when I read your poems and tributes that you dedicated for your son and nephew, there is nothing bad in this world than losing our beloved, I would send my sympathy to you and May Allah reward you for your sacrificing, and you must know Allah always loves his people and he does not give them any burden they can not handle, as you are Christian and I am a Muslim and both of us believe in God we must believe the destiny and accept the fate as it is, accept my solace and may God bless you and your family
Yousif



 

Saturday 08/18/2001 5:33:33pm
Name: Raluca
E-Mail: Raluca9@aol.com
Homepage Title: In loving memory of my Dad
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/rrosenberg01752/dad.html
Referred By: Search Engine
Location:
Comments: I'm at a loss of words. Two young handsome guys were taken from their loved ones so tragically, I don't know what to say, except this: Scott, Ryan, wherever you are right now, you are always in your families' hearts. As long as you keep Scott's and Ryan's memory alive, they will never die. My deepest sympathy on this tragic and senseless loss!

Ral



 

Saturday 07/28/2001 7:02:22am
Name: Anna
E-Mail: annievila@hotmail.com
Homepage Title: ALL BOND BROSNAN
Homepage URL: http://communities.msn.com/ALLBONDBROSNAN
Referred By: Web Ring
Location: Spain
Comments: Hi,
Congratulations for this wonderful and touching web site. Luckily I´ve never gone through something like that, but that doesn´t mean I can´t understand how devastating it is to live in a world where things like that can happen anytime.
Thanks for creating this web site.
Greetings,
Anna.



 

Wednesday 07/18/2001 8:38:40pm
Name: Kelsey
E-Mail: Hurleychick401@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location: California
Comments: your son ad nefhew were both very hansom men they are both loved it seems by all , even thoe i had never gotten the chance to meet either of the boys , they seem that they touched every ones heart .you have a beautiful site thank you kelsey coburn ~



 

Wednesday 07/11/2001 0:20:33am
Name: Brenda Poole
E-Mail: pop_gran@bellsouth.net
Homepage Title: Virtual Memorials ~ Bobby Poole
Homepage URL: http://virtual-memorials.com/servlet/ViewMemorials?memid=13983&pageno=1
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location: Ellisville, MS.
Comments: My heart is breaking as I read your pages for these two beautiful boys. You have done a great job in tribute to them both.
I understand your pain for I too have lost my 21 year old son in a automobile accident Oct. 4, 1998 on a foggy Sunday morning. He had just came home for a long weekend from the Marine Corps.
As I read what you wrote, you almost discribed Bobby's life. Isn't it amazing how our earthly angels lived their lives to the fullest and enjoyed each moment like it would be their last and touched so many people along their paths.
I pray that you and your family have peace and joy when you think of them. And remember, God never makes mistakes. He's always in control.
Monday 07/09/2001 8:18:51pm
Name: dottie
E-Mail: milkduddottie@cfi.net
Homepage Title: In Memory Of My Daughter
Homepage URL: http://jillangel.50megs.com/index.html
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: Florida
Comments: I am sorry about the loss of both of them...this is a beautiful tribute to them both....take care and God Bless You...Dottie



 

Friday 07/06/2001 3:08:30am
Name: Jo Trackler
E-Mail: jo@jetler.com
Homepage Title: Destination JO
Homepage URL: http://www.jetler.com
Referred By: Friend
Location: Leesburg, Florida
Comments: I am so very sorry that you have such a tragic loss to deal with along with your health problems. How very tragic. My 4month old niece was killed by her abusive father in 1980. He served 3 days in jail after being found guilty of 1st degree murder. I never met her as we were seperated by 3000 miles but she was supposed to be mine and maybe that might have saved her but things happen for a reason we don't often understand. A few years later the same sister who lost her daughter to her abusive boyfriend was dating a another man that killed 3 children in a hit and run accident while drunk. He has no recollection of the accident but *came to* several miles a way in a wrecked car. The police found hiom and his car was found to be the vehicle in question and he sereved many many years in prison. Thankfully my sister was not with him. I know it sounds terrible but he was such a good man who was extremely kind who made a tragic tragic mistake of drinking and driving.



 

Wednesday 06/27/2001 5:52:37am
Name: Ellen Cruz
E-Mail: donlen@emirates.net.ae
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: U.A.E.
Comments: My 11 years old, only son died very recently through a very mysterious accident and I am now undergoing this painful process of grieving. I'm looking for people who can understand the pain that I am going through now. I don't know how can I move on for it is very true that I terribly miss him and I cannot live the same way I live before because I dont see anything beautiful now. Luckily I found your web site and knowing that there are people who experienced what I am going through now will hopefully help me to move on.

Thank you.

Ellen



 

Tuesday 06/19/2001 5:59:08am
Name: Camilla Schultz
E-Mail: camilbe@online.no
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Homepage URL:
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: Norway
Comments: I`m very sorry for your los. My uncle died november 11th last year, so I can imagine how you feel. I will pray for you all.

In Loving Memory of my uncle Bjoern-Are Schultz.
Camilla Beathe Schultz Jensen



 

Thursday 06/07/2001 12:46:03am
Name: LINDA PATTERSON
E-Mail: llpatters@getgoin.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location: Ava MO
Comments: I want this type of page for my son...
It is so beautiful...
Anything to help us deal with such incredible loss.....Not one of these angels can be forgotten.....
May God bless and keep you in His Grace.....lp
Monday 05/28/2001 7:25:54pm
Name: Mama / Aunt Nancy
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Comments: Ryan & Scotty, Thinking of you both today and missing you so much. Love you with all my heart.



 

Friday 05/25/2001 2:54:47pm
Name: LOU ANN PEEL
E-Mail: TIMSGIRL1998@AOL.COM
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL:
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location: GEORGETOWN KY
Comments: THIS IS A BEAUTIFUL SITE MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES ON YOUR LOSS. MY STEPSON WAS MURDERED THIS PAST DECEMBER AND READING THINGS LIKE THIS MAKES ME FEEL GOOD KNOWING THAT HE IS WITH GOD RIGHT NOW. THANK YOU AGAIN.



 

Tuesday 05/22/2001 2:47:42pm
Name: Jan & Cary
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Location:
Comments: Hi Ryan & Scott!
We've been thinking about you a lot lately! Somehow I think you must know that! Thank you for watching over us. We love you both so much! Say hi to G-paw for us and tell him we love him. We miss you!!
Love,
Jan & Cary
xoxoxoxoxoxoxo



 

Wednesday 05/16/2001 10:13:25am
Name: Ashley Groves
E-Mail:
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Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location:
Comments: Your site was a great help in giving info for a school project that I'm involved in.

Thanks



 

Thursday 04/26/2001 4:44:08pm
Name: Becky Keleb
E-Mail: kahunasmom@hotmail.com
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Referred By: Friend
Location: Bloomfield, Iowa
Comments: I am sorry for your loss, you are awesome in your strength!

 

 

Friday 03/30/2001 0:46:30am
Name: amber
E-Mail:
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Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location:
Comments: there was a tragic accident in the small city that we live in where two boys, 17 years old whom were bestfriends were killed instantley while driving on bad road conditions. this page has brought back the memories and simularities that these two boys shared with the stories of your loved ones. I just wanted to take this time to let you know that all the angels in our skyland are watching, protecting and loveing all of us down here in every way shape and form, as you probably already know. When something like this happens it's hard to come to terms and when you do, your still not complete and i think that it just makes you stronger.



 

Friday 03/23/2001 4:48:56pm
Name: Veronica Saez
E-Mail: vero@jmm.com
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Referred By: Friend
Location:
Comments: I truly express my condolensces. I have two girls, and can only imagine the hardship you've experienced. May God you always!


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Monday 03/04/2001 5:29:53pm
Name: Melissa
E-Mail:
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Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Search Engine
Location:
Comments: Dear Ryan,
       Today is our daughters 5th birthday and I wish so
much you were here for it.  You have been on my mind so
much lately.  Remembering all things of so many that I will
never ever forget.  I remember how jealous Zane was when
Mazey was born...he did not want your mom to even touch
her.  And how Shelly stayed every minute of the day to help
me with Mazey when we came home from the hospital.  And
most of all I remember the look on your face when we were
waiting for our little girl to be born.  Ryan, I love you
so much.....I did not know what I had.  You were the best
daddy to our children...and they will always know that. 
They are so beautiful.  And your mom and dad are so good to
them.  Please know that you made me so happy without even
knowing it. Just the little things.  I love you...melissa
Sunday 02/25/2001 9:46:13am
Name: debbie griffin
E-Mail: tomdeb92@swbell.net
Homepage Title: none
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location: waco,tx
Comments: Just saw the page from a link to Bethalto. I graduated with Sandy Aud and JoAnn Elgen.. they must be related. My only child, Lora McMillian still lives in Bethalto. It is hard enough being away from her, but I cannot imagine losing her in any way. Keep your faith and never let the memories fade. God's peace be with you all.

A former Bethaltonian
Sunday 02/18/2001 9:00:55pm
Name: Janis
E-Mail: jcorrell@swbell.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: Topeka, Kansas
Comments: Your website honoring your children's lives and deaths are beautiful. You have suffered the worst possible tragedy that any Mother can imagine. I am so sorry.
Saturday 02/10/2001 8:53:17am
Name: Mommy / Dad
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Search Engine
Location:
Comments: Ryry, We are thinking of you today on your 25th birthday. We miss you so much, son. I hope you can see the kids and see how they've grown. You would be so proud of them. I can just hear you laughing at them when they do something cute. They will never forget you. Our lives will never seem right without you. We love you so much. I pray our love reaches you and you feel safe and secure where you are. We believe we will all be together again someday. Wishing you a happy birthday my son. Scotty and Poppy...please make his day special. Love you all.
Wednesday 01/24/2001 10:29:50pm
Name: Chrissy Glaser
E-Mail: Glaser_rules@excite.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: Wisconsin
Comments: Hi, I just want to let you know that you are never alone in losing a loved one. I lost my brother in 1983 to suicide. I still have a hard time excepting it, but I then remember that I will see him again down the road. :) It sounds like they were wonderful boys.
Sunday 01/21/2001 6:30:01pm
 
Name: Gay
E-Mail: mark.gay@wn.com.au
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: Western Australia
Comments: I am very moved by your tribute to your son and nephew. I lost my 17 year old son Matthew 3 weeks ago in an accident with a train. Matthew died 3 hours later. I am only just discovering how many other parents this has and is happening to. I gives me some comfort to find out that other mother's have gone through the same emotions as me.
Friday 01/12/2001 6:00:49pm
Name: Corrie
E-Mail: cberry2@prodigy.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Search Engine
Location:
Comments: Scotty,

It has been three years now since you have left us. It doesn't seem like it could possibly be that long. I wish you were here to meet my daughter Morgan. I know how much you loved kids. You would have loved her. I keep in touch with your family. They are doing okay, but you can see the grief all over their face everyday of their lives. Taylor and Baby Scott really help them out. THey are so precious. I went up to your grave for the first time in a year. It has been very hard for me. Every since I became a mother your death has affected me in a different way. I grieve for you as my friend and always will but I can't imagine how I would feel to grieve for you as my son. I feel for your parents so much. I can't even imagine how they must feel. We all love you and miss you so much. You would think that time would heal the pain, but it still hurts so much. SOmethimes it doesn't seem like reality. I just want you to know that no matter how much times passes you will always be in my heart and my thoughts.
I miss you Scott

Love you always Corrie
Thursday 01/11/2001 5:13:27am
Name: Mama / Aunt Nancy
E-Mail:
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Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Search Engine
Location:
Comments: Ryan & Scotty, Remembering you both today with longing and sadness...my precious boys...may you be at peace. I love you.
Thursday 01/11/2001 1:40:29am
Name: Erin Downer
E-Mail: airn2809@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Friend
Location: Mt. Pleasant, SC
Comments: I just wanted to let you know that you and your family are in my prayers. This time of year is very hard for the love ones to deal with. Scotty, was a great friend to me and I think of him everyday. I wake up every morning with a picture of him and my brother by my side. They help me get through the day. I wish you the best on this third anniversary. Just remember Scotty, Ryan, and my brother (Tim) are all watching over us from above.
Saturday 01/06/2001 5:07:04pm
Name: CAROL VOCI
E-Mail: CDVOCI@AOL.COM
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Friend
Location: PONCE INLET, FLORIDA
Comments: my sister joni found your web pge and wrote a letter to her grandson taylor ,who she lost 5 yrs ago new years day> she just forwarded me the page and i just wanted to let you know what a BEAUTIFUL tribute to your son. i was taylor's aunt and loved him very much too..i think of him often and the tears just come.i miss him so much sometimes(especcially the holidays)ever since taylor passed away i do alot of CHERUB ANGEL CRAFTS..i have angels all over the house and never take off my cherub angel pendant my husband bought for me 5 yrs. ago i look for taylor's strengh everyday of my life. i've been sick for over 23 yrs now and i don't think i could get through eveyday without talking to taylor to give me strengh..he will remain in my heart forever until hopefully we will all be together someday..my prayers and sorrow go out to your whole family and again WHAT A BEAUTIFUL TRIBUTE TO YOUR SON!!! GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS! CAROL VOCI
Wednesday 01/03/2001 3:12:17pm
Name: colleen scharnhorst
E-Mail: tasmom@hotmail.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: salem,il
Comments: I too have lost a son and know a little of what a lost you must feel. may God bless you and stay with you always.
Monday 01/01/2001 5:21:10pm
Name: Joan Heagle
E-Mail: theoldscout1@webtv.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: Daytona Beach, Fla.
Comments: Thank you so much for sharing your son and nephew with us. You must be so proud. Thank you for letting me write to our Angel Taylor on his death anniversary today 1/1/2001.
Monday 01/01/2001 2:23:48pm
Name: Heidi Landeck
E-Mail: hc2121@aol.com
Homepage Title: Jeremy's Wings
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/jeremypatrick2000/index.html
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: Michigan
Comments: Your web site is beautiful as is both of your sons. I lost my son Jeremy in July of 2000 and i know the pain of losing a child. Thanks so much for sharing your angels with me.
Saturday 12/30/2000 2:35:10am
 
Name: Mari Huebner
E-Mail: joshsangel2
Homepage Title: Joshsangel@bright.net
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: Cloverdale,Ohio
Comments: What a beautiful site.I'M sure your son and nephew, would be so proud. I too lost my son to a car accident 3/24/00.I also played the song tears in heaven at his funeral.I am so sorry for your loss.I truely know it is so hard. But let it be of some comfort to you to know how your page lets us know we are not alone. I know there are days I feel so all alone. And your page picked my spirits up, by what you have done for these two young men to say they are loved,and never forgotten. God Bless You and give you strenght to continue . r t
Wednesday 12/27/2000 4:07:07am
Name: Carolyn Mayfield
E-Mail: carjmay@gte.net
Homepage Title: In Loving Memory
Homepage URL: http://www.kevinmayfield.com
Referred By: Search Engine
Location: My Mom is a Survivor
Comments: I would like to extend my sympathy. I share your grief as I lost my son, Kevin on September 21, 1998, when he was murdered. The pain never goes away. Your tribute is beautiful.

Peace,
Kevin's Mom forever
9/8/77 to 9/21/98
Wednesday 12/06/2000 11:32:44pm
Name: June
E-Mail: jbellh@aol.com
Homepage Title: The Compassionate Friends
Homepage URL: http://www.compassionatefriends.org/index.html
Referred By: Friend
Location: F.C., Virginia
Comments: National Children's Memorial Day and The 4th Annual Worldwide Candlelighting will be on Sunday December 10 (2000) at 7:00 p.m. Everyone in every time zone around the world is invited to light a candle in honor of all children who have died too soon, that their light may always shine. As candles go out in one time zone, they will be lit in the next, creating a wave of light that will encircle the globe. Will you join with all bereaved parents in this 24-hour memorial by lighting a candle, wherever you are, at 7:00 p.m. on Sunday December 10th for Ryan and Scotty as well as all children now gone.
Tuesday 12/05/2000 2:41:11pm
 
Name: Melanie Emery
E-Mail: melter@netins.net
Homepage Title: netins
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Friend
Location:
Comments: I have a friend going through alot of pain since the loss of her child. Your website has helped us both. Thank you
Monday 12/04/2000 6:43:27pm
 
Name: julie campbell
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed In
Location:
Comments: i feel for you and your family i lost a child before she was even born. I hope you are doing well and i know that God is watching over you all take care
Friday 11/24/2000 12:50:10am
 
Name: Danny Blackwell
E-Mail: Cringe2581@ aol .com
Homepage Title: None
Homepage URL: http://None
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Pride< Louisiana
Comments: I am so sorry, I know the pain of losing a son. I have lost my son to a auto accident also 1-18-99.
Sunday 11/19/2000 5:22:11pm
Name: Scott Francis
E-Mail: scott.francis@sk.sympatico.ca
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Saskatchewan, Canada
Comments: Last weekend (November 11th, 2000) we lost our 22 year old niece and friend to a drunk driver. I miss her so much. Your sight is rich with memory and love. You have represented Ryan and Scott well. Thank you for your honesty.

 

Sunday 11/19/2000 4:11:39am
Name: Julie
E-Mail: boolie@pacbell.net
Homepage Title: Ross Romper Room
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/twobozos
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: CA
Comments: I am really sorry for your loss. Death of a child should be something no one has to indure. The two boys sound like beautiful people. Your site has touched my heart! Thank you for sharing!
Julie
Friday 11/10/2000 11:23:15pm
Name: jo
E-Mail: joeannsangels@yahoo.com
Homepage Title: Our Family of Angels
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Heatland/Stream/2668/index.html
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Oh
Comments: I am so sorry for you loss. This is a very nice site memorializing the young men. My thoughts are with you as I too know what it is to give up a child.
Tuesday 11/07/2000 6:54:07pm
Name: Jacqueline Michelle Milley
E-Mail: cutebutvicious@hotmail.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Net Search
Location: Canada
Comments: I wanted to say that it is great that you all want to write letters to your deceased relatives
and friends but I also want you to realize that it was their time to go and they are all in
a better place. Our loved ones are always in our hearts no matter where they or we go.
All we can do now is go on with our lives while celabrating theirs.
My prayers go out to you all.
Jacqueline Michelle Milley
Tuesday 11/07/2000 4:15:31pm
Name: Jan
E-Mail: janicehunter@earthlink.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location:
Comments: For whatever reason I woke up today thinking about the boys. I miss them so much! Cary & I talked to Ryan & Scotty about how great it was going to be once we moved back home...and since we've been back it's just not the same without them. For what reason God chose them I don't know, but he must have had a special reason for bringing those two special boys to heaven. Ryan & Scotty are always in our thoughts.

xoxoxo

Janice Hunter
Friday 11/03/2000 6:14:54pm
Name: todd
E-Mail: none
Homepage Title: none
Homepage URL: http://none
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: hatteisburg Ms
Comments: I know how it is to lose a child. Ilost my 4 year old little girl in a plane crash going to Florida to stay with her grandmother. I am still waiting for my angel to come home. Her name is ashley nicole and I still think she will be home soon even though I know in my heart she is home with God.
Thursday 11/02/2000 6:58:20am
 
Name: Bhavit Bhalsod
E-Mail: bhavitbhalsod1@hotmail.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Australia
Comments: I don't really think anyone can imagine what you must be going through. I'm sure that Ryan and Scotty are in a better place now. Recently I lost a friend. It's not easy to deal with but I'm sure you'll get through it.
Wednesday 10/25/2000 12:48:48am
Name: kristine
E-Mail: k_colding@hotmail.com
Homepage Title: angels n things
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/joycesangels/index.html
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: fl
Comments: Hi first i want to say how sorry i am for the loss of Ryan and Scott.I lost my daughter in a car accindent there we two other lost(grandma&aunt).I wont begen to say i can undrestand why this happens,or that it gets better.I think only a mom can understand another mom that has been through this.I do believe with a little faiht we will see our children again.Untill that day we can keep there memorie alive through sites like this,and ofcourse in our hearts.God bless.Kristine mom to Lauren forever nine
Wednesday 10/25/2000 3:00:58am
Name: Ninfa Garza
E-Mail: ninfa_00@hotmail.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: South Texas
Comments: May the Lord strengthen you all during your times of grief and recollections. God bless you!
Saturday 10/21/2000 6:21:47am
Name: Dorothy
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Net Search
Location: Salem, Oregon
Comments: This is the most beautiful site I have ever seen. Thank you.
Thursday 10/19/2000 10:06:54pm
Name: Lesly Zent
E-Mail: leslydz@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Texas
Comments: I am so deeply sorry for your loss, I don't think one could ever get over the loss of a child. I have so much profound respect for you for raising your grandchildren with such love. They are truly blessed. God bless you and you will meet Scotty and Ryan again.
Thursday 10/19/2000 3:13:14pm
Name: Heather L. Morris
E-Mail: BillandHeathr@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Tampa,Florida
Comments: Hello I was told about this page from a friend.
I think you have done a beautiful job and I think your angels would be proud :)
Wednesday 10/18/2000 7:33:06am
Name: Shannon
E-Mail: loftisx4@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: AOL
Location: Illinois
Comments: God save you and keep you.
Sunday 10/08/2000 1:35:32am
Name: Aunt Nancy & Uncle Steve
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location:
Comments: We are thinking of you today Scotty on your birthday. We love you and miss you so much. Zane & Mazey have been talking about you today and telling stories they remember. We pray you have found eternal peace and everlasting joy. XOXOXOXOXO
Saturday 09/30/2000 5:02:56pm
Name: Kelly
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Oklahoma
Comments: I am so sorry about my previous posting. I was somehow directed to this guestbook after
viewing a site about miscarriage and infant loss. I stated in my posting that I could relate to some of
your feelings. It was after I went back and found out I was on a completely different website that I knew
that I must go back and sign here again. I cannot begin to imagine the pain of losing Ryan and Scott.
I am so sorry about the accident that took them away so suddenly and much too soon. What a
wonderful tribute to them.

Kelly

 

Thursday 09/28/2000 1:18:39pm
Name: Renee
E-Mail: reneemagill@primus.com.au
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Net Search
Location: Australia
Comments: To Whoever is Reading this,
my heart goes out to the parents of Scott and Ryan. My prayers are with the families of all the people who loved ones were stolen away. My love Renee
Sunday 09/24/2000 5:02:09am
Name: JoAnn
E-Mail: blondie@panacom.com
Homepage Title: IN LOVING MEMORY OF VERNON
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Shores/3387/
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Southport Fl.
Comments: I am so sorry for your loss , my Heart goes out to you and your family . You have made a Beautiful Memorial page for your son and nephew . You can feel so much Love for them both here . They are Handsome young men and your grandchildren are Beautiful . I also am a member of MMIAS and so thankful for such a caring group of people . Thank you for sharing Ryan and Scott with us .Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and Prayers . I don't know why we have to endure such pain , but I truly believe we will see our sons again and hold them in our arms once more . Sending Love and Prayers to you and your family . Love , JoAnn
Sunday 09/10/2000 12:27:25am
Name: Arienne Maclean
E-Mail: amaclean2@vtown.com.au
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location:
Comments: How did they pass away?
Sunday 09/10/2000 2:48:39am
Name: Monica
E-Mail: mon2000_90210
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: California
Comments: I was so touched by the tribute to your son and nephew. I can't even begin to imagine what you have gone thru.
I have a son and a daughter, they are my "everything", I can't imagine my life without them. As a mother, I know that your lost must have been the hardest thing you have ever experienced and my heart goes out to you and your family, I know that someday you'll see your son/nephew again, they are together now, in a special place, watching over you. God has special plans for people, and I'm sure he needed those two special boys in heaven.
I hope that with time you'll be able to carry on with your life knowing that someday you will see them again in a place where there's no pain, sadness, sickness, etc.
GOD will help you thru!
GOD BLESS YOU!!!
Monday 09/04/2000 11:07:58pm
Name: Sheila Brown
E-Mail: sheilab@iwcusd10.12.il.us
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: Kim's old school, Onarga, IL
Comments: Thanks Kim!

 

Friday 09/01/2000 5:46:21pm
Name: Shirley Winters
E-Mail: sjwinter@televar.com
Homepage Title: Shirley's Web World
Homepage URL: http://www.televar.com/~sjwinter/
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Moses Lake, Washington, USA
Comments: I was so touched by your memorial to your son and nephew. I know your pain because I too lost a son about the same age as your Scotty. This is the hardest thing I have ever had to go through in my life but I know that my Father in Heaven reached down and gave me the comfort of his Spirit when Ruly died and has been there for me so many times since then. I learned that faith and trust in my Heavenly Father was the most important element in healing from this grief. I don't understand all of the reasons why my son was taken away when he was, but I have perfect faith that it was for a purpose that only my Father in Heaven knew and understood and this gave me the joy that can only come through knowing and understanding this. I pray that you and all of those who have lost loved ones and are grieving so terribley will be comforted in the same way that I was. I loved my Son beyond measure and I know without a doubt that I will be with him again and we will rejoice and understand why then. May our Father in Heaven bless you and your dear loved ones also. May he bring you the comfort and peace that can only come through Him. With deep empathy and love.
Friday 09/01/2000 3:15:40am
Name: Terry
E-Mail: mupydawn@earthlink.net
Homepage Title: Our Beach Family
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/EnchantedForest/Creek/9955
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: Hatteras, North Carolina
Comments: What a lovely site. I really liked the information I found on Children and Grief. I have lost four children, two
before birth and two after. I have had to explain the last loss in April of this year not only to my 12 year
old son but to his three year old sister. It is hard to explain to her where her "Buddy" is. When we go to the
gravesite she says he is down in heaven with her two sisters. When it is lightning up above she says her "Buddy" is playing with
God's flashlight. What a wonderful way to see things...wish I was a child again.
I want you to know I understand some of your pain and if you need a friend I'm here.
Saturday 08/26/2000 10:25:53pm
Name: janie bate
E-Mail: janiebate@yahoo.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Edinburgh in Scotland
Comments: I have a 22 month old daughter called Claire-Iona who has multiple v.s.d's,she has had one op to put a band round her pulmonary artery,she is due to have open heart surgery early 2001, I am terrified of what the outcome will be,what the future holds for us,everyday I think about it it never leaves my mind,I search the web for people sharing similar experiences,I am so so sorry you lost your precious child,please pray that Claire's surgery will be succesful, I to will pray for you.
bye bye from janie
Saturday 08/19/2000 5:34:52am
Name: CathyBowen
E-Mail: Figet321@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Signing another Guestbook
Location: BX.NYC
Comments: I Also Have Lost My Son Kenny, He Was Hit By 2 Cars.....I Deeply Am Sorry For Your Loss....Your Site Is A Beautiful Dedication To Your Boys.....Cathy
Thursday 08/10/2000 7:07:51am
 
Name: jimmy galbraith
E-Mail: resin_ball@hotmail.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: alton, IL
Comments: website looks great. sorry to hear about them. my warmest wishes to each of the families. I got the link from Rance davis' website. sincere condolences to everyone.

 

Friday 07/28/2000 6:52:02pm
Name: Allison
E-Mail:
Homepage Title: Allison's Heart
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/SoHo/Village/1652/
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: OKLA
Comments:

Your site has touched my heart so deeply.
Please accept this gift from Allison's Heart in memory of your child.

Keep My Memory


Keep my memory with you,

For memories never die;

I will be there with you,

When you look across the sky.

I will be there in the clouds,

In the birds that fill the air;

In the beauty of a fragrant rose,

You will find my memory there.

You will feel me in the tenderness,

Of a tiny baby's touch;

You will hear me if you listen,

In the twilight's gentle hush.

When your hearts are heavy,

And you feel that you are alone;

Just reach down deep inside of you,

For your heart is now my home.

I will always be with you,

I will never go away;

For I will live on in your hearts,

Forever and a day.

Allison Chambers Coxsey

c1996
Sunday 07/23/2000 9:10:03am
 
Name: Sarah Bryl
E-Mail: sarahn20@excite.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Lawrenceville, Ga
Comments: Your memorial to Ryan and Scotty is wonderful. The grandchildren are all precious. I lost my only sibling, Jessica, about 4 months ago in a car accident. I would like to e-mail Ryan and Scotty's sisters if that's feasible. Pass on my address if they're interested.

Sincerely,
Sarah Bryl
Monday 07/10/2000 2:32:56pm
Name: Elaine Weldon
E-Mail: kelly102098@hotbot.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Georgia
Comments: This is such a beautiful site. My Angel letter to my brother was just posted here and thank you! I am so sorry for your loss. My God's everlasting love help everyone through their times of struggle and grief.
Friday 07/07/2000 2:15:47am
Name: Andy D'Alberto
E-Mail: dalbey@usadatanet.net
Homepage Title: Packer Bell
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: Auburn NY
Comments: Sorry to hear about Ryan& Scotty.I just lost a brother and I know the feeling of losing a loved one. My Prayers are with you. GOD bless you and your Family.
Wednesday 06/28/2000
Name: Teresa Trimm
E-Mail: ttrimm@silverlink.net
Homepage Title: Troy Killed by a drunk driver
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/teresatrimm/troy/index.html
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: WA
Comments: Hi. I wanted to say how beautiful your tributes are and to agree with you about time healing the wounds, because it doesn't. It just makes them more bearable, but they leave very jagged scars.

Teresa
Tuesday 06/27/2000 4:29:42am
 
Name: CHARLES E. AUD
E-Mail: CEAUD@BIGFOOT.COM
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: PHILPOT, KENTUCKY
Comments: I KNOW THAT YOU HAVE LOST YOUR SON, BUT I FOUND THIS SITE AND WAS WONDERING IF WE ARE RELATED. MY FATHER'S NAME WAS
SYLVESTER LEO MARRIED TO LATTIE MARTINA FULKERSON. IF YOU WANT TO REPLY, I HAVE MORE INFORMATION.
Sunday 06/04/2000 11:30:03pm
 
Name: Pam Sloan
E-Mail: x2noname@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: oklahoma
Comments: what a wonderful tribute, to you sweet boys iam truely sorry for you loss, and please know that my heart goes out to you and yours, iam sure you have a great support system,but should the time arise that you need a friend who understands and is willing to lend a shoulder an ear or just simple compassion from one grieving mother to another i would love to be there for you.
sincerely pam sloan
Friday 06/02/2000 1:18:07pm
Name: Dianne
E-Mail: Diannelee__@webtv.net
Homepage Title: Dianne's Corner
Homepage URL: http://community.webtv.net/DianneLee__/DIANNESCORNER
Referred By: Clicked on our Banner Advertisement
Location: Newburgh, NY
Comments: This is a beautiful site, that has touched my heart.Your grandchildren are blesssed to have you, and you are blessed to have them. I pray for the best for all of you. God Bless you all. I will be back!
Sunday 05/21/2000 11:24:12pm
 
Name: rita
E-Mail: rms10509
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: new york
Comments: May God Bless you.

 

Tuesday 05/16/2000 7:11:16pm
Name: Jeff Reece and Tim Garrison
E-Mail: mauijim@primary.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: Edwardsville, IL
Comments: There's nothing much I could say to take your pain away, but in times of troubles and heartache I always remember one thing, it's the bad experiences in life that build character and make us stronger. Although you can't bring them back, you can keep them alive with your memories. I think it's wonderful what you're doing with this web-site and his children will appreciate it when they are older. With all my love and compassion! Jeff.
Thursday 04/27/2000 11:32:50am
Name: Becky
E-Mail: bek_i@hotmail.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Texas
Comments: What GORGEOUS YOUNG MEN!!!!!!! I know your a proud Mom, and Aunt. What a blessing to see the same compassionate gleem in Zane, and Mazey's eyes, that are also in their Daddy's eyes! His love and compassionate spirit lives through his children......
Saturday 04/22/2000 0:18:36am
 
Name: lea w
E-Mail: punkins@bwsys.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: illinois
Comments: what a beautiful tribute to your chlidren may they always live on in your hearts, i too know whats its like to lose a child i lost my daughter in may of "98" she was my only child and there's not a day that goes by that i dont miss her. may god bless you, our angesls are up there watching over us , lea
Friday 04/14/2000 4:22:28pm
Name: sharakirchmaier
E-Mail: sahrasayz@aol.com
Homepage Title: sharas page
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: colorado and virginia
Comments: almost 2 years ago my best friends died...he was on the page with ur family members and friends...Christopher Hill will be remember not only for the love he gave but the memories he left..i'm sure scott lives in memories and is with christopher..thank u for setting up this webpage...

with all my heart

Shara J Kirchmaier
Saturday 04/01/2000 3:12:17am
Name: Lera
E-Mail: jade4_69@hotmail.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: u know
Comments: You did a wonderful job on this Nanny. I love you.

 

Monday 03/20/2000 2:28:29pm
Name: Ryan Walter
E-Mail: ryans2001@hotmail.com
Homepage Title: N/A
Homepage URL: http://N/A
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Kearney Nebraska
Comments: Hi,
I just wanted to say I know how it feels(sort of). Last summer we lost 3 high school students in our school in atraffic accident. It was very hard on the students as I am sure it was for you. Hang in there.
With God's love,
Ryan S Walter
Saturday 03/18/2000 5:51:47am
Name: Valerie
E-Mail: oneeyedog@aol.com
Homepage Title: For the Love of Gregory
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/missinggregory
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Long Island, NY
Comments: Ryan and Scotty were such handsome young men, what a shame a senseless accident claimed their young lives. You have created a wonderful memorial to them, the love just shines through on every page. They are obviously loved and missed by many. Mazey and Zane are so very lucky to have their daddy and uncle as their own special guardian angels. ((HUGS)) to you all as you miss them both. Valerie-Gregory's mommy (11/15/99-11/17/99)
Saturday 03/18/2000 1:25:51am
Name: Ashley
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: North Dakota
Comments: I am so sorry for this tradgic incident. I know though that everything that happens, happens for a reason. It is all part of God's will. It may sound unfair and unreasonable for something like this can happen to innocent children. Just remember God loves you and will be with you always.

I can do everything through him who gives me strength.
Philippians 4:4
Thursday 03/16/2000 3:37:51am
Name: Linda
E-Mail: redakota@chicago.avenew.com
Homepage Title: A Spirit Meant To Fly
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/jlkangel
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Illinois
Comments: My heart aches yet for two more families of a senseless tragedy. What is God's great plan? Why our beautiful children-when at any given moment I would give my own life to have my daughter back as I know you would too. My Jenni has a good eye for handsome guys-so I am sure their paths have crossed. God bless you and all your family-especially those 2 adorable spitting images of their daddy.
Thursday 03/09/2000 5:13:03am
Name: Wanda
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: California
Comments: So very sorry to hear of your loss. I have two boys of my own and can only imagine the grief. You have a
wonderfully powerful web page. Very impressive indeed and what a great honor to the boys!
Wednesday 03/08/2000 3:18:13am
Name: Tammy
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Fontana, CA
Comments: As a mother of three boys, I can't imagine what you are going through. Your story is very moving. I'm sure I'll think of your boys in days to come.
Sunday 03/05/2000 10:56:48pm
 
Name: Luke Gagliardi
E-Mail: LukeG2299
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Northford Ct.-06472
Comments: Hey,
I don't even know who you are but you seemed like the sweetest kid. You have a loving family who I'm sure
misses you so much because I miss you just typing this. I'm very sorry and give you my love.
-To the famly,- I know it must be hard for you because I went through the same thing before. I'm very sorry, Scott
looked very kind and you can be assured that right now he's an angel in Heaven. I can tell just by the love you gave
him this is true. I know I'm just a twelve year old kid but believe me.
With Love,
Luke Gagliardi

 

Sunday 03/05/2000 0:51:48am
Name: Sandra K. Ashworth
E-Mail: ladystinger@centurytel.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: Starks, Louisiana
Comments: I am so sorry to hear about your angels. I lost my 22 year old son in a drowning accident August 31, 1997. Your story really touched my heart. I miss my son so much and it doesn't seem to be getting any better. There isn't a day that goes by that is easy. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us.
Saturday 03/04/2000 6:08:00pm
Name: Megan Waldon
E-Mail: Nutmeg880@cs.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Terre Haute Indiana
Comments: Hello! I just wanted to say that I thought your website was BEAUTIFUL!!! I am so sorry to hear about your lost, which I am sure you have heard so many times before! I don't want to bother you for to long, I just wanted to say that I hope things are getting better for you and that I thought your site was amazing and very special. Thank you,
God Bless,
Megan
Saturday 03/04/2000 3:08:11pm
Name: Lynda Kalesnick
E-Mail: lkalesnick@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://none
Referred By: Net Search
Location: Machiasport, Maine
Comments: Found your site while looking for Grandparents page. My daughter and I were very touched by your memorial to Ryan and Scott. I lost my husband to cancer in 1998. We know what grief is. I am also raising my two Grandsons. These boys surely have Good Parents. Especially Ryan who took on the responsibility of raising his two children. No wonder you were so proud of him. I am a Christian and I pray you will see your boys again. Lynda and Kim
Saturday 03/04/2000 3:05:19pm
Name: Lynda Kalesnick
E-Mail: lkalesnick@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://none
Referred By: Net Search
Location: Machiasport, Maine
Comments: Found your site while looking for Grandparents page. My daughter and I were very touched by your memorial to Ryan and Scott. I lost my husband to cancer in 1998. We know what grief is. I am also raising my two Grandsons. These boys surely had good parents. Especially Ryan who took on the responsibility of raising his two children. No wonder you were so proud of him. I am a Christian and I pray you will see your boys again. Lynda and Kim
Friday 03/03/2000 4:03:29pm
Name: Daisy
E-Mail: daisy@par1.net
Homepage Title: alt.support.grief memorial pages
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/asgdaisy
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Parsons, Kansas
Comments: Your page is just beautiful. You've done alot of hard work
and you should be very proud!!
Sunday 03/05/2000 2:58:50am
Name: Stacey Howard
E-Mail: stacey1599@yahoo.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: South Carolina
Comments: I am so touched by your story. I lost my only son 3 years ago and I know the pain all to well. My son died as a result of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. I never had the joy of hearing him talk and calling out "Mama" or seeing him walk. But somehow the few memories I do have see me through. And I treasure every memory I have. God Bless You all.
Sunday 03/05/2000 2:03:34am
 
Name: debbie
E-Mail: dmatthews@duplinnet.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: AngelFire
Location: North Carolina
Comments: I am so sorry for your loss.. I know how you feel. I lost a son and a grandson.they were only babies when they passed on but i think it doesn't matter how old they are they are still our babies.Living with the greif does get easier and you are right it never goes away.The holidays and birthdays and the day of their death is the hardest.It has been 13 years since my son passed away and only 3 years for my first grandson. I will keep you and your family in my prayers....May God bless each of you!!!!!

 

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Wednesday 02/23/2000 7:33:44pm
Name: Katy Newbill
E-Mail: Newbillk@worldnet.att.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Net Search
Location: Pensacola, FL
Comments: I came looking for advice for my own children and wish you the very best in life. Thanks for the site. Katy
Wednesday 02/16/2000 4:06:31am
Name: Kiley Ball
E-Mail: Daphni1055@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Yahoo!
Location: Indiana
Comments: Your website was very beautiful. I can say i know how you feel. I myslef lost three of my best friends in a tragic car accident in November of 1996. Two of them have a tribute site here too. May god bless you and all of our angels.
Wednesday 02/16/2000 2:21:36am
Name: DOREEN SANTANIELLO
E-Mail: doreensanta@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: plantsville, ct
Comments: your website was beautiful. i lost my beautiful daughter october 24, 1999, one week to the day after her 21st birthday because of a drunk driver, this will be his third conviction. so i know how you feel and the pain i know will only ease with time, but nothing will ever be the same. but it helps to hear other peoples stories and doesn't make me feel that i'm the only person this ever happened to.
Wednesday 02/16/2000 0:42:01am
 
Name: Judy
E-Mail: JuCaMc@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Viewing another Guestbook
Location: PA
Comments: Nancy,

I have a memororial for my Mom and my friend on this web site. I want to thank you for creating this site, I often visit.

As I read your memorial page I can feel your pain of losing a son. I have a son and two daughters and I know the love a mother has for her children. To lose a son or daughter has to be devastating! To lose a loved one is so hard! I cry with you.

I lost my Mom, two aunts, two uncles, a very close friend- Cindy Wagner, my father-in-law, my brother-in-law, and two other friends in about a year's time. I am not over all the grief yet. It is very difficult and I still cry and mourn because I miss my loved ones!

God bless you Nancy and you are in my prayers. I ask the Lord to give you peace, comfort and strength.

In Christ's Love,
Judy
Tuesday 02/15/2000 11:12:23pm
Name: Roni Schaeffer
E-Mail: rrschaeffer@dellnet.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Delaware
Comments: On 1/19/00 my brother Ralph passed away. He had been very sick mentally and physically for many months. Ralph served in the Vietnam war from 1965 to 1966. He was in the 101st infantry better known as the Big Red One. Ralph apparently never got over all he saw there. He was always my big brother, being 15 yrs older. I only wish that I had reached out to him more often. But I was there for him when I think he most needed it. It just hurts so bad.

 

Sunday 02/13/2000 11:45:07am
Name: Rita Bonar
E-Mail: crafty32_99@yahoo.com
Homepage Title: World of Wonders
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Cabin/8514/index.html
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Pegion Forge Tn
Comments: You know I read when I first started my web page that you don't want a lot of writing on your pages because people would get bored. That is not true on this page I could never get bored reading any part of these web pages. I am so sorry for your lost. May God bless you all each and every day. Thank you Rita
Sunday 02/13/2000 11:33:07am
Name: Rita Bonar
E-Mail: crafty32_99@yahoo.com
Homepage Title: World of Wonders
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Cabin.8514/index.html
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Pigeon Forge Tn
Comments: Hello, I just want to say how wonderful this site is. I can't find the words to say about this page. You have some very special pages. Thank you for making such a fine page. Rita Bonar
Saturday 02/12/2000 4:53:58pm
Name: marilyn
E-Mail: jkt@semo.net
Homepage Title: In Memory of Kaitlin
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Wellesley/Atrium/6385
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: missouri
Comments: i am so sorry for your loss of these wonderful young men. i enjoyed the analogy of being over the horizon on the sea when our time comes. God bless you and be with you. kaitlinsmom
Thursday 02/10/2000 9:46:29pm
Name: Cheri
E-Mail: cheridan@wwnet.net
Homepage Title: Cheri Shank....Learning To Live Again
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/heartland/fields/8464..click on gate..click on S
Referred By: Geocities
Location: Michigan
Comments: I'm your new friend...even though its for the wrong way of meeting all of you..I just wanna stop in to say hi and that I care and that I'm trying to tell the world that drinking and driving doesn't belong in the same breath..Take Care
Thursday 02/10/2000 0:45:48am
Name: Cheryl Porter
E-Mail: eieio@mid-mo.net
Homepage Title: breedersworld
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: calif,mo
Comments: That was beautiful.

 

Wednesday 02/09/2000 3:41:38pm
Name: Dee
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Florida
Comments: Wanted to stop by for Ryan's birthday and thank you for what you have done in Ryan and Scott's memory. Your beautiful site is a blessing to more people than you will ever know.Because of Ryan and Scott, people are finding love and peace and also being educated on so many things through your links. There are many sites for children but you have opened your heart and understanding to everyone.God blessed you with Ryan and you have spread that to the world.I hope you will have a day of happy memories and know that that more people are thinking of you and care than you can imagine.-God love ya
Tuesday 02/08/2000 1:39:52am
 
Name: margaret
E-Mail: hessbearpatch
Homepage Title: none
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: pa.
Comments: my thoughts and prayers are with you
Wednesday 02/02/2000 4:11:05am
Name: Regina Manness
E-Mail: pioneer for christ@ aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Victorville, Ca.
Comments: I just want to say I am so sorry about the loss of your handsome son and nephew. I just wanted to express my sympathy I will pray for your family and your sister and her family for peace. God Bless all of you. The boys sounded like really neat young men, I'm sure their in a better place now. Take Care. Regina
Monday 01/31/2000 10:50:31pm
 
Name: Christopher Mitchell
E-Mail: christopher0214@hotmail.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Los Angeles
Comments: Im Loving memory, and with deepest sympathy
Saturday 01/29/2000 5:27:31am
Name: Helen M. Thompson
E-Mail: angelbear1129@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Swanton,Ohio
Comments: A very moving site
Thursday 01/27/2000 4:11:13pm
Name: ashley conner
E-Mail: aconner1.nhj.ic
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location:
Comments: I lost my baby cousin and by friend eric that was 19 and he was great Scott reminds me of my own. my sympthy goesw out to you in every way. ashley
Sunday 01/23/2000 8:16:48pm
Name: steve
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location:
Comments: god bless
Saturday 01/22/2000 5:48:17pm
Name: Melissa Ewing
E-Mail: EmaBluEyes@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: AOL
Location: Iowa
Comments: I would like to send my empathy to you and your family. It seemed as if you all lost two special people that were dear to your hearts. I know the greif first hand and know that the memories nor pain of their loss will ever subside. God is watching these two young boys now and will keep them safe until his loving family comes to join them.

From Iowa, Melissa
Thursday 01/20/2000 1:45:20pm
Name: Debbie
E-Mail: dschmeler@home.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Canada
Comments: My name is Debbie,I two lost a loved one a husband and father to my kids.He and his brother were killed in a traffic accident.
My life has been a roller coaster many ups and downs.
Life has been difficult but I can do it I've had to for not only me but my kids.
I've moved away from his family,this hurt them much but it was hard living in my old home.I even met someone who truly cares about me and the kids,but his family dislikes him.
Why??? Well a transport truck killed my husband and my new boyfriend happens to drive one.I never even asked him what he did for a living when I first met him,it didn't matter to me.All that was important was that he cared for me and the kids.
Death hurts it causes alot of pain.I wish I could take their pain away.
Why is it so difficult to accept when someone wants to go on with life??My lates family always says your like a sister/daughter but now that someone else is in my life it changes???
Theres so much more hidden behind my husbands death(Booze,drugs)I knew all this even his siblings did but not his mom&dad.
I had to hid my pain not giving myself time to grieve because I was asked to think of others and their suffering.
Why are people sometimes selfish when it comes to death??The family is angry at me for picking up and moving away because they feel I need to continue to grieve in pain.His family still suffers greatly,why can't they accept that I am too.Just because I moved on with life dosen't mean I don't grieve.Life doesn't stop when theres been a death.
My mother in law wrote a letter to me stating I'll see whats fair??? This comment confused me.
his family was always alittle strange but I loved them all.They seem more concerned with MONEY$$$$.
I received a large amount of compensation thru insurance.It paid off all the debts even to his family which they wanted right away.I considered this money Blood Money.
My kids are well taken care of its what he would of wanted,but his brothers daughter received a smaller amount and the family is upset over that.
I almost wished his mom was beneficery to the estate that way all members would be compensated.Its like their hands are out waiting for money$$$$.
No one benefits from death.Its a pain that hurts crushing the soul.
I cried when I read your letter it sounded just like me always thinking of others before yourself.I was brought up that way,always think of others first,its better to give the receive...
I've learned to live with him gone constant reminders of him are with me daily(his kids).I will always remember him and his brother even though I've chosen to continue with life.His family have put their lives on hold.They continue to mourn and always will,they are hurt that my mourning has past.I will grieve as its said it will be my companion forever.
I loved him and always will.
My new life has brought me happiness,I will never forget my past even though its behind me but its the future that lies ahead.I have chosen my path and I know someday it will lead me to him.
Debbie
God bless you
Wednesday 01/19/2000 7:31:53pm
Name: GAYLE L. TOSH
E-Mail: gtosh@bellsouth.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Viewing another Guestbook
Location: Nashville, Tennessee
Comments: I wanted to thank-you for the beautiful memorial you created for my son, Stephen M. Tosh and to let you know that I wanted to create some others, so I
followed your page and was interested in your angels. Your story really touches my heart, because besides Steve,
I also lost a baby to SIDS when she was 7 days old. When you experience something like that you feel like you can never do it again and you hope and pray you won't have to.
And I thought there was no pain as great as having to select that small pink coffin and watch that small body be buried when every fiber of my body was screaming to pick her up and warm her little body and bring life once again to it.
But then the morning came when they came to tell me about Steve. We had spent years apart because he had lived with my parents, so we had only been back together for a few years.
I won't tell you he was a saint, because he wasn't. And that boy-man could make me angrier then any human being on earth has ever been able to. We were so much alike that I often
knew what he was thinking. He never got into big trouble, but he kept me hopping in high school. Then he married a little red-haired girl and immediately gave me a grand=daughter. Then 2 yrs. later he
gave me another. He never really got to know her and then he was gone. After burying both my parents within the last four years, I had to oversee his arrangements. I didn't know if I could go on
but somewhere I found the strength to hold up for his wife and the babies.
No, the grief never goes away. You do feel it forever, but after a while, it hurts less and you begin to remember the good times that you had together and the reasons that are so dear to you. And if you have your faith you lean on that very strongly. If I didn't
believe he was in a better place, I couldn't go on. But Steve was always a fan of science fiction, and I picture Heaven as a real paradise for hem and my little girl, and my parents, and my Husband who passed away a year later.
So I am not writing this to re-open your grief but to let you know that others do understand sometimes and to tell you that there is light at the end of the tunnel
Sincerely,
gtosh@bellsouth.net
or durardg@aol.com

 

Wednesday 01/19/2000 12:49:49am
Name: Mel Green
E-Mail: melgreen@cpyiftw.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: Fort worth
Comments: I admire your web page. However, its sad that we have to have one.
Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. I am finding out that
the grief period for the loss of a loved one goes on forever.
It doesn't seem to get better with time for me and from your
very touching memorials it appears that even after two years
the pain is great. God bless you.
Monday 01/17/2000 2:18:30am
Name: Cindy
E-Mail: oldjr@asbank.com
Homepage Title: Two Angels
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Ridge/8531
Referred By: Net Search
Location: LA
Comments: My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I know the pain and the feeling of emptiness also. I lost both of my sweet aand precious sons on 5-3-97. May God continue to give you all the strength you need to piece together what is left of your lives. Remember that one day we will all be together again.
Tuesday 01/11/2000 4:44:46pm
 
Name: Erin Downer
E-Mail: emd28vball@yahoo.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: Mt. Pleasant, SC
Comments: I would like to tell both families that I am thinking about them today. I know how hard it is on a day like this. It just seems like yesterday that Scotty and I were in Jr. High together. Me the nagging 6th grader with all the older kids. I want Jim, Sandy, and Kim to know how lucky I feel to have had Scotty in my life. I still think of him everyday. He was there for me when ever I needed someone. I know Scotty and my brother are looking out for me and my family. I also have reason to believe Scotty and Ryan are doing the same for their family and friends. I can't wait until the day I will be together with my two best friends again. To this day, I still consider my brother and Scotty my best friends and no one can ever replace them.
I LOVE YOU SCOTTY!
My prayers are with both families,
Erin
Tuesday 01/11/2000 9:25:02am
Name: Thinking of you
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location:
Comments: Ryan and Scotty,
Remembering you today on the second anniversary of the day you left us. Nothing will ever be the same. We miss you so much. With sadness and longing.....we wait....
Sunday 01/09/2000 5:34:14pm
 
Name: Lea Ann MacEwen
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Prince Edward Island, Canada
Comments: Your story touched my heart deeply, and my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Sunday 01/09/2000 4:48:34pm
 
Name: Pam Mac Ewen
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: AngelFire
Location: P.E.I.,Canada
Comments: You are very strong people.I hope time has and will heal your open wounds. I lost my 92 year old special grandmother a year ago Jan.4th. I can't even begin to understand you and your family's grief. God be with you all.
Tuesday 01/04/2000 5:56:07am
Name: Net Lopez
E-Mail: net_lopez@questronix.com.ph
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Manila, Philippines
Comments: My sympathy and prayers are with you. God bless!
Monday 01/03/2000 3:25:09pm
Name: Tami
E-Mail: Tcrepar@hotmail.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://getpaidwhileonline.8m.com
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: MS
Comments: I thought your page was wonderful! And a great idea. Thank you so much for the chance to write to my angel!!!
Friday 12/31/1999 10:21:24pm
Name: Mama / Aunt Nancy
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location:
Comments: Ryan & Scotty, You should both be here to bring in the year 2000. It still doesn't seem possible that you are gone. We miss you both so much and love you more than words can say. XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO Sending lots of love.
 
Thursday 12/30/1999 1:52:59am
Name: Julie Brown
E-Mail: jbrown0613@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Gonzales, LA
Comments: I was simply searching the web to find information on helping a child deal with death. My husband and I have just taken in my four year old cousin. The day after my wedding, about a year and 1/2 ago, my cousin's mother died. She was three at the time. I am just curious about how to help her deal with such a great loss, being that her father was never involved. Your website is extraordinary. I would like to send all my thoughts and prayers to Mazey and Zane. I am also curious to know how you keep their father's memory alive. God bless you!
Wednesday 12/29/1999 1:23:14am
Name: Beth
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: michigan
Comments: I too know wht it is like to lose a child. We lost our daughter 3 years ago. She was 21. Time does lessen the pain, but it stays with you.Christmas time is especially hard. It's best to surround yourself with family and loved ones, it helps to buffer the loss a bit. May God bless you.
Saturday 12/25/1999 1:39:45pm
Name: Mama / Aunt Nancy
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location:
Comments: Merry Christmas Ryan and Scotty. Missing you both so much this holiday season. Thinking of you with love. 143
Friday 12/24/1999 6:46:19am
Name: Kimberly Kelly
E-Mail: kimm101429@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Viewing another Guestbook
Location: Ohio
Comments: What a beautiful job you have done. I know Ryan and Scotty are very proud of you. I lost my newborn daughter on May 2, 1997. Maybe your boys can watch over her for me(just until Zane and Mazey get there). My love and prayers are with you and your family.
Tuesday 12/21/1999 7:00:16pm
Name: mel Green
E-Mail: melgreen@flash.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location:
Comments: I was moved by the story and my heart goes out to you and
your husband. I know there are no words to express my
sorrow for you and no words that can comfort you. God bless.
Monday 12/20/1999 1:38:25pm
Name: Mel Green
E-Mail: melgreen@flash.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: Ft Worth, Tx
Comments: I have enjoyed visiting this page. Please accept my sincere
sympathy for your loss. My heart goes out to you. I never
knew what grief was until we lost a child. While we know we
will join them in heaven one day, it seem little consolation
at this time in our lives. We have gotten so much comfort
from reading the memorials on the WEB and can't thank you
enough for the effort you have put into setting up the memorials.
God will surely bless this outreach ministry and you.

 

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Guestbook archived 12/20/1999

Monday 12/20/1999 8:17:44am
 
Name: DC
E-Mail: ddivadog@aol.com
Homepage Title: The Mothers Day Tragedy at Sacred Falls State Park
Homepage URL: http://www.sacredfalls.com
Referred By: Net Search
Location: Waialua, Hawaii
Comments: I was very touched by your story and I am very sorry for your loss.
My only sibling, Donna, came to visit me in May of this year. She and her husband went to a park to see a waterfall. While she was at the waterfall sightseeing a landslide took place. Boulders rained down upon everyone near the base of the waterfall. Donna and 7 others did not survive. Anguish, despair. Her death haunts me. I feel as if I lost half of me.
Friday 12/10/1999 10:33:07pm
Name: Doc and Debbie Love
E-Mail: Codybg@Knology.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: Panama City, FL
Comments: Nancy and Steve,

We know how hard this time of the year is for you all. I hope things are getting a little easier. It was great seeing the kids and you both in Oct. Hope to see you in the Spring. We hope you all have a very Merry Christmas.

Love,
Doc, Debbie and Cody
Tuesday 11/30/1999 2:39:10pm
Name: John Carnachan
E-Mail: jcarnachan@hotmail.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Yahoo!
Location: Scotland
Comments: I am sorry to hear about your loss.I cannot imagine for one minute what it would be like to lose a son.I hope and pray that in time the pain heals and the memories are of the joyous times that you had with them."Hope is like the sun,as you journey towards it,it casts the shadow of your burdens behind you"
Sunday 11/28/1999 8:15:57pm
Name: Heather Foster
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: AOL
Location: Kountze, Texas
Comments: I am so sorry for your loss. I don't feel I can fully comprehend what you are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sunday 11/28/1999 8:15:01pm
Name: Heather Foster
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: AOL
Location: Kountze, Texas
Comments: I am so sorry for your loss. I don't feel I can fully comprehend what you are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Saturday 11/27/1999 0:27:58am
Name: millie king
E-Mail: mking@gurulink.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: AngelFire
Location: newark ohio
Comments: so very sorry
Tuesday 11/23/1999 1:54:46am
Name: Charlene
E-Mail: CFMemory@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Oregon
Comments: I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even comprehend the grief you must feel. May the Lord bless you and keep you.
Wednesday 11/17/1999 9:05:10pm
Name: B. Family
E-Mail: carrieb75@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: newyork
Comments: There are no words that can decribe what I am feeling at this moment, I am sorry for you & your family's loss. Such a tragic loss. Please know... you, the children & your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Friday 11/12/1999 6:23:19pm
 
Name: tammy harrison
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: AngelFire
Location: alabama
Comments: i am so sorry for your loss i too am grieving over my best friend's sudden death..... i know...

 

Thursday 11/11/1999 10:33:39pm
Name: Jamie Acklin
E-Mail: www.jalee@socket.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Signing another Guestbook
Location: Lebanon, MO
Comments: My heart goes out to your family.
Monday 11/08/1999 11:34:18pm
Name: Jacqi Gentile
E-Mail: jjgentil@thecia.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location:
Comments: I am so sorry for your lost. Your web pages are wonderful for others who have experienced a loss of a child/children. Thank you
Saturday 11/06/1999 10:28:53pm
Name: Amanda Gibson and Kika
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Godfrey
Comments: We just wanted to let you know how much we love you all and how grateful we are to havw gotten to know all of you. Mazey and Zane are the best cousins McKayla could ever have.
Wednesday 11/03/1999 11:32:43pm
Name: Angelica Sanchez
E-Mail: www.creep531@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: AOL
Location: Austin Texas
Comments: I am sitting here in tears because I have seen things on this web site that I never thought could be possible. I got on the net trying to do research on drunk driving, but I never thought accidents could be so bad. I am a medial student and i know some day I will be dealing with victims from drunk drivers and what not.... but after reading what I have read today I know it will make me think twice.

I send you my condolences!!

Angelica Sanchez
Saturday 10/30/1999 12:43:27am
Name: Kelly Provencher
E-Mail: kellypro@together.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: AngelFire
Location: Derby Line, Vermont
Comments: It's impossible to know how a parent feels losing a child,
but having lost a grand-niece (7), grand-nephew (3), and
nephew (17-who lost his life trying to save his young
cousins from a tragic fire on 12/5/98) is hard enough to bear.
We are trying to help our beloved niece (mother of the two
young angels) & sister (mother of the 17-year-old hero who
was so very brave) bear the burden of loss. Thank you for
sharing your stories. God bless & love you always.

 

Thursday 10/28/1999 5:18:08am
Name: meg
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Net Search
Location: WISCONSIN
Comments: Today I lost my best friend, she was terminally ill and although I new the end was near, nothing prepared me for how I felt when I received the call at work today. Tonight I was looking for articles and poems on grief and came apon your story. I am still wiping away the tears, I can't begin to imagine the grief your whole family has had to deal with. My heart goes out to you and your loved ones. It is a comfort to know your grandbabies are with you and that they have you help them through this. It is also comforting to know that you will be able to share with them what their father was all about and what a wonderful man he was. Please extend a hug for your grandchildren for me. God Bless.
Tuesday 10/26/1999 7:46:41am
 
Name: Ashleigh
E-Mail: Bestda@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Net Search
Location:
Comments: I know that I am guilty of getting behind the wheel when I shouldn't of. But your site has made me realize the stupidity and ignorance of my actions. I thank God that I have been so lucky this far and have definitely learned from your site. I now realize the danger that I am putting not only myself in but others as well. Thank you very much for your beautiful tribute to two very special men. It was a beautiful display of your love and devotion.
Monday 10/25/1999 8:55:01pm
Name: Azure Moser
E-Mail: Schuh@webserf.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Topeka,Ks
Comments: Life is so precious! I learned that when a high school friend was taken from us early in his life.
Friday 10/22/1999 0:31:20am
Name: Gladys Quintaine
E-Mail: QGcq@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: TerreHaute,In
Comments: I truly know how you and yours feel. Nov.6,1994 was the day our lives changed. Our two sons Derek and Ryan were killed in a caar crash. Nothing prepares you for this and then nothing prepares you to know how to help someone else. I agree that people talking about them helps. They were real , they did exist, they still exist. Derek was 17,a senior, a lifeguard, and a diver. Ryan was 15 and loved by all he never met a stranger. Our boys are greatly missed as I know yours are. If you'd like to chat thaat would be fine. Gladys Quintaine QGcq@aol.com
Tuesday 10/19/1999 10:25:40pm
Name: Christine
E-Mail: Zag63@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: Ma.
Comments: I too had lost a brother my bestfriend.... your story has touched me deeply.
Friday 10/15/1999 7:02:24pm
Name: Karli
E-Mail: KMS972@aol.com
Homepage Title: na
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: New Jersey
Comments: My heart go's out to all that new these two boys. I truly know the heatache of a losing someone so young
Thursday 10/14/1999 4:01:46pm
Name: Gina Piombino
E-Mail: gina_piombino@great-valley.k12.pa.us
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Paoli, PA
Comments: Thanks so much for your beautiful site. What an incredible memorial to your loved one. Because of your love and what he meant to so many of your family members, he continues to help others like me. I am a child therapist in a school district. I am beginning a grief group for children at the middle school that I work at and wanted to find some information to educate me further on how to help kids. You've helped me tremendously. Thanks again, Gina
Friday 10/08/1999 3:33:09pm
Name: Betty
E-Mail: bjss@intellex.com
Homepage Title: Betty's Haven
Homepage URL: http://home.talkcity.com/BlabWay/dazle/mystartindex.html
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: OK
Comments: Hi Beautiful pages to beautiful memories of beautiful sons. I can relate to the pain.
Thursday 10/07/1999 2:12:08pm
Name: Aunt Nancy
E-Mail: leeanne@mvp.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location:
Comments: Scotty,
Remembering you with love on your 21st birthday. We miss you so much. You are forever in our hearts. 1.4.3.
Monday 10/04/1999 5:05:36am
Name: James McPherson
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Colorado
Comments: I am so sorry about what had happened! I am 18 now and I was involved in an accident in February in which I was very lucky to come out alive, and even luckier to be unharmed. Well I don't think it was luck I think God did not allow anything to happen to me. And from reading your story I really do realize what my family might have gone through had God decided that it was my time to join him in heaven. Thank you for being so brave to share what has happened because I am sure that a lot of people have been touched by your story. May God Bless You

 

Saturday 10/02/1999 3:37:44am
 
Name: Irma Ajewski
E-Mail: Lo407@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location:
Comments: My heart goes out to you as parents. I lost my only loving son. He shared the same birthday as you son and I was just surfing in on the Invincible Summer site and saw that someone shared my son's birthday. Peace be with you. Love & Hugs Irma (Chuckie's Mom) '
Friday 10/01/1999 1:42:51pm
 
Name: Norah ( Fiona's mum)
E-Mail: fionasfashiondolls@tinyonline.co.uk
Homepage Title: Fiona's Fashion Dolls at home
Homepage URL: http://www.fortunecity.co.uk/picnicpark/eternity/62/
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: England
Comments: I was just looking at Zane and Mazey's fun page and almost an hour later I am still here. I was emotionally drained reading your tragic story. I think that your son Ryan and nephew Scott will be incredibly proud of you both and so much at peace to know that his beloved children are been raised by such sincere and loving parents.
I also wanted to say that I am a Physiotherapist and many years ago I worked at Sheffield Childrens Hospital and I can still clearly remember cases of different severity of Arthrogryphosis so I was very interested to read the articles on your site. God Bless and every good wish for you and your family.
Monday 09/27/1999 9:52:26pm
 
Name: Diane Lepage
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Saskatoon
Comments: My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. May God be your source of strength and comfort.
Thursday 09/16/1999 8:18:41pm
Name: Maxine
E-Mail: motherswithangels@yahoo.com
Homepage Title: Mothers With Angels
Homepage URL: http://www.angelfire.com/hi2/motherswithangels/
Referred By: Lycos
Location: USA
Comments: This is such a beautiful site. Your children must be smiling for this wonderful tribute to them. I especially like your super background. How talented you are.. I am also a Mother with a child in Heaven.
Just remember "When someone you love becomes a memory,
that memory becomes a treasure!"
Monday 09/13/1999 9:09:56pm
Name: Donna Leslie
E-Mail: edleslie@vianet.on.ca
Homepage Title: dedicated to my son
Homepage URL: http://www.freeyellow.com/members8/tiffany52
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Sudbury Ontario
Comments: I am so sorry to hear about your loss. my son died three years ago and I struggle everyday.He was my only child..God bless you and take care...Donna Leslie..if you get a chance please sign my guest book...

 

Saturday 09/11/1999 6:58:28pm
Name: Nicole
E-Mail: Aura781@aol.com
Homepage Title: Our 5 Angels
Homepage URL: http://www.oe-pages.com/FAMILY/Homepages/aura7781
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Media PA
Comments: I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I lost 5 of my beautiful friends in a one car crash on January 29, 1999, and i know how deep the pain is. I can only imagine the pain that these boys families are going through. As long as our angels are in our hearts and memories, they are never far from us, and we will be with them again one day. May God be with you.
Friday 09/10/1999 3:35:14pm
 
Name: Tara Hawkins
E-Mail: bigt19@hotmail.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: Newman Illinois
Comments: I am so sorry to all of you for your loss. I never got to meet either of the boys, but I know that their families are very loving and great people. I got to see Taylor grow up and I know she is going to be a great individual. You are all in my prayers and I hope that we can all keep in touch.
Monday 09/06/1999 0:56:55am
 
Name: Pat Birley
E-Mail: AMYL686@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Pennsylvania
Comments: Your website is certainly a beautiful tribute to your sons. I did hit home in my heart as my best friend lost her daughter in a car accident 1/29/98. A part of me mourns for her each and every day of my life. May God Bless you and your families.
Sunday 09/05/1999 2:56:30am
 
Name: Barb Lawrence
E-Mail: lawrences@mindspring.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Lycos
Location: Englewood, Ohio
Comments: I'm new to the internet and this is really the first surfing that I've done. My daughter died in 1987 and I was searching for something about the song, "Precious Child" and somehow found my way to your web page. It is beautiful.
I am sorry for your loss.
Thursday 09/02/1999 7:07:50pm
 
Name: Anand
E-Mail: anandkaur@aol.com
Homepage Title: Active Life
Homepage URL: http://activelifeinc.com
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Santa Cruz CA
Comments: was looking at the angel memorial pages ....

This is a beautiful page and a couple of beautiful boys. I am a mother of 2 boys 23 & 25.... They are also blonde & I can relate to how you feel. What a loss, but I also know no one ever really dies, which always makes me feel better when I read these pages ... I can feel them alive even as I write this.... I guess it is knowing that which makes it easier for me whenever a friend passes over.... one part of me is sad & crying, and I can feel them there comforting me & can't ignore that I feel them & know they are there & get the message they have for me that they are doing fine & not to cry.... I am speaking mainly of a very good friend who passed over this year.

Anyway, my love iswith you & I appreciated your story... what a shock. They are beautiful & these pages are so very very well done. Thanks for sharing your deep beautiful story.

I am also a grandma - 50 but look in my 30's everyone says - they think I'm her mom, not grandma.... that's always fun for me when they say that.... I love her more than anything. I pray your grandchildren are blessed now & forever in every way.

I wish no one ever invented alcohol & that it was not an acceptable drink in this society. It is just poison.... why this society makes it 'cool' or 'fun' to go poison oneself in the sake of 'fun' I don't know.... but perhaps our next generations can be wiser than the society and have fun in other ways. I feel the same way about cigarettes.... these two 'legal drugs' have caused more pain & suffering & deaths than any war... and daily we all have to smell that stuff whether we like it or not (even if just a little sniff - it always makes me hold my breath).

If there is anything I can do to help, I will.

Blessings,
Anand

I'm working on my homepages but for now I just put the www of the company whose products I use & share, which have deeply changed my life & those around me.... very pure & good & life changing.

 

Tuesday 08/31/1999 10:11:44pm
Name: molly miller
E-Mail: mlong@ezwebtech.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Bowler, WI
Comments: I lost my son (age 14) on September 15, 1999 and I'm feeling the pain all over again as the 2 year anniversary
comes nearer. and his birthday (10-9-82) and the holidays. It's coming back. I needed a memorial and can't even
think what to write. I like the memorial you had for the boys. This is beautiful. I guess I feel alone right now and need
to know there are others out there. They are all angels in the next world; and are trying to help us when they
can to cope with this world.
Tuesday 08/31/1999 9:03:04pm
Name: Pam Chezum
E-Mail: Pamrwmr@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Oxnard California
Comments: I'm so sorry about your loss may God be with you and your family. You and your grandbabies will be in my prayers always.
Saturday 08/28/1999 8:35:26pm
Name: rachael
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: cumbria,england
Comments: this page is very touching.were sorry to hear of your loss
Friday 08/27/1999 2:02:10am
Name: Paula Poole
E-Mail: Paula4454@aol.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: AOL
Location: Virginia
Comments: This is a very special site, beautiful. I lost my son Benjamin 2 years ago, I understand this grief only too well.
Thank you for sharing these tributes. Very touching.

 

Friday 08/20/1999 4:54:22am
Name: Tracy Dotson
E-Mail: tadot_2000@yahoo.com
Homepage Title: First Names Inc.
Homepage URL: http://www.angelfire.com/wv/firstnamesinc/index.html
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Edgarton, W. Va. USA
Comments: very nice looks like you put a lot of work into it hope to see you at my webpage soon have a great day
Wednesday 08/18/1999 3:52:19am
 
Name: Stacy Tuttle
E-Mail: stuttle1@prodigy.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Edwardsville, IL
Comments: Just thinking about Scotty today and thought I would log on and let you know he is still remembered and thought about every day. I know Meg misses him and thinks of him daily. My daughter walked with Taylor in Meg's wedding and it made me think of Scott. Taylor has a lot of scott's features in her. She is a cutie! My prayers are with you.
Monday 08/16/1999 7:37:11am
Name: Kristina
E-Mail: KGSNBSC
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: North Carolina
Comments: I am sorry to read this. I hope everyone is doing alright.
Friday 08/13/1999 1:33:02am
Name: Crystal
E-Mail: evileva@infoblvd.net
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: New Yrok
Comments: I was looking for a poem for my neice to hand above her bed. I typed in neice and I ended up looking @ all of these pages. I feel like I know you and scott just from looking @ the pages & pictures. I cried while I looked @ these pages. It's so sad. I wish you much happiness & success in the future. It sounds like you had a wonderful son and he will be with you forever. You sound like a wonderful & loving family. I am 18 & I know that I have only begun living my life and it makes me very sad to know that people my age die all the time. Just remember that he is in a better place & he is still with you in your thoughts & Hearts
Sunday 08/08/1999 7:31:32pm
 
Name: Laura
E-Mail: tjvarnadoe@mindspring.com
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: From a Web Ring
Location: Atlanta, GA
Comments: What a beautiful tribute to your son and nephew. I lost my 26 year old brother a little over two years ago to a traffic accident. I have been echoing your words about learning to live with your grief rather than overcoming it since that day. It gets less painful to live everyday but the ache is always there and I suppose always will be. May God bless you and Steve, Ryan's two children and all of Ryan and Scotty's loved ones.

 

Thursday 08/05/1999 0:54:13am
Name: Melanie Jeffords
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Fayetteville,GA
Comments: I am really sorry about your loss.They both sound like great people.
Sunday 08/01/1999 4:34:20am
Name: bonnie
E-Mail: bowlerlady@webtv.net
Homepage Title: my two angels
Homepage URL: http://community.webtv.net/bowlerlady/homepage
Referred By: From a Friend
Location: ohio
Comments: I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. God Bless You.
Thursday 07/15/1999 3:43:01am
 
Name: Joe Shewchuk
E-Mail: joeheli@sprint.ca
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: NewsGroups
Location: Toronto Canada
Comments: May the lord give you strenght

J.S
Tuesday 07/13/1999 3:31:01am
Name: Janette Stewart
E-Mail: jstew@ballistic.com
Homepage Title: To Him Be The Glory
Homepage URL: http://nanny9.com
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Troup, TX
Comments: What a touching story. I know your heart ache. I know your pain. I still feel it today. The boys are such goodlooking
boys. I pray they both knew Jesus. I will pray for you and your family. God will strengthen you, love you, and show
His loving mercy on you.

You see, I know the pain your feeling. My precious daughter-in-law was killed by a drunk driver on 8-16-98. You may
be thinking, but she was only your daughter-in-law, these were our children, the pain is different. No. If you had known
Laurie, you'd understand. She was my daughter-in-law, yes, but she was much much more. She was my child. In
my heart, she was mine. I loved her as my own. She was also my friend. I still cry at the mention of her name---not
as much as I did, but I still cry. My life has an empty space that no one will ever fill. It belongs to Laurie. But I know
where Laurie is. I know how much she loved our Savior. Her life showed that. Knowing where she is brings comfort.

I pray God's love and peace be with you. He will comfort you.

Hope you come by my new site. I have memorial pages for Laurie there. Hope to see you.

God bless you and your family.

Janette

JESUS IS LORD!!!
Friday 07/09/1999 12:15:02am
 
Name: Sonja
E-Mail: inoutsterry@uswest
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Utah
Comments: On July 4th 1999, I lost a dear friend (45yrs old) to a tragic auto accident, today 7/9 we put her to rest. Scotty and Ryan's page helped me understand that this "really does hurt". I thank you for sharing your stories and memories with me. I plan to make one soon for my friend, I will let you know. My thoughts are with you.

 

Friday 07/09/1999 8:10:08am
Name: CLAUSSEN FAMILY
E-Mail: jeffco@cetnet.net
Homepage Title: Claussen Family Homepage
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Shores/9588/Claussen2.htm
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Washington State
Comments: What a tribute to two boys who are missed so much! God Bless all you do here on your web site. May God comfort your family and friends~ Jeff

 
Wednesday 07/07/1999 3:09:09pm
Name: Lola
E-Mail: foxyred@prodigy.net
Homepage Title: FoxyRed-n-Sassyj's Sister Site
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Lane/3567
Referred By: From a Web Ring
Location: texas
Comments: reading your story made the memories flood the memories of the day in jan 1987 my 23 year old daughter died leaving behing 2 girls ages 2 and 4, that was 13 years ago i thought i'd die too when she died, but then 1 year after she died my son informed he diagnosed H.I.V. and he died 6years later in 1993 the grief never really goes away.
does it.. my heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your sister.
Monday 07/05/1999 7:26:31pm
Name: Jenni Geisler
E-Mail:
Homepage Title:
Homepage URL: http://
Referred By: Just Surfed On In
Location: Jewett Illinois
Comments: I really enjoyed your web site. My heart goes out to you